Proverbs 31 woman: the Christian “barbie doll” or a promise?

October 6, 2015

For some of you raised in the Christian culture, just by hearing “Proverbs 31 woman” there is a internal cringe that takes place.”Ugh – please.  I already struggle with feeling not good enough, now there’s this “barbie doll” of a Christian woman that every good man wishes they could find while every woman enviously desires to be this woman of perfection…”  For
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June 11, 2015

Recently I walked through a very dark time.  I am grateful that God holds us when we have no strength to hold onto Him.  I wanted to share part of my story to encourage those who are walking through a tunnel, have been, or will be.  I also hope that through reading this, others will learn how to respond to
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Is Life Just A Game?

April 14, 2015

“Growth and advancement is based on your response to Me…” Today I was playing Candyland with the little girl I nanny. We often look at our lives like a game board. If we draw the right “cards” we will advance. If we draw the wrong cards, we take steps back. And then when we are on a place on the
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Fall in love with Love

March 10, 2015

To the young girls, to the women, to the single men and women, to the married men and women, to my future daughter…may we cultivate and recognize true Love in all things… Dearest daughter, One day you will read this at a point where your heart is wanting to be loved by a man. There will come a day when
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An apology to men, from women

January 22, 2015

I believe that there are two opposing forces that are continually present in our relationships.  Pride and humility.  And fear and love.  They are constantly present, constantly battling, and the individual person gets to choose which one they will engage and operate in.  Pride/humility, fear/love all comes down to a persons choice. Being a woman myself, I am passionate about encouraging
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Love Redefined

August 1, 2014

All of our lives we see images and portrayals of love in movies, story books, and romance novels that create a picture of love in which all of our insecurities melt away, we are confident that we are worthy of love, and the beginning of a romance is the beginning of us actually being or feeling fully alive.  Our own
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So I am the cause of your lust, huh?|A woman’s response to the modesty message

June 30, 2014

“Ladies, if you didn’t dress so revealing we wouldn’t have such a struggle with lust. Keep it covered up.”  – Tweeted by a well-known Christian Athletic Ministry For the past 10 years I have been the listening ear of…stories.  Not just any story you read in books. But the stories of human hearts. Particularly the journeys of the female heart.


March 26, 2014

Despite the bumps and crevices, Apart from the flaws and blemishes, Can you find me? ~Pazao In the world of technology, we have every opportunity to paint the picture and image in which we wish to be portrayed.  Like a canvas to an artist, we have the “power” to create this image of ourselves which both highlights what we want to
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10 reasons why a man of integrity is the sexiest of them all

March 19, 2014

“When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put away childish things….” Paul, 1 Cor 13:11 

The power of MY sexuality

March 19, 2014

A woman’s body was made shapely, curvy, beautiful in my opinion. Men like the female body because it is different than their own.  I like to think of the female body being curvy because of all the dimensions that a woman carries ~ A woman has an amazing ability to “carry” multiple things at once.  She also has the form to carry out
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Hannah’s Cry

March 13, 2014

Lately my heart has been on the ones who have attempted to get pregnant, who have tried everything possible, and are still waiting.  Some have received negative reports from the doctors, stating that even their 1% chance of pregnancy is slim.  I have friends who have been given words and promises from the Lord that they WILL bear a child.  They
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A Word for American Christian Leaders

April 15, 2015

Many times God gives me a message in a dream to relay to people personally, to myself personally, or to the Body in general.  I am not anyone special, I do not have my own ministry, I do have pastoral covering, but I am simply a daughter of God who wants to hear from the heart of Him.  I am
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